ZSNES board

Well the wires run through a black box that has 2 lights on and one that blinks, the two lights on are power/sync. and 10base, and then one taht blinkz is tx/rx ........... so not sure if that is router or not!

Well... i don't have a firewall that has been proven cause i host servers in other games.... soooo but not sure about the router!

Well i ahve no clue waht any of that means really but yea we tried the tcp, and udp, and never worked for either!

Umm i have a problem connecting through inernet, i host, and it says client received or whatever, but it doesn't go any further, what am i doing wrong?? or what can i try?